May 2012
27 posts
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3. Wandering through the galleries of an art museum.
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All Women Stalk: 10 Signs He Is In Love with You →
Anonymous asked: There's a guy that I used to be friends with, but he had a crush on me and when I rejected him, he got angry and after that we only talked out of necessity. That was about a year ago. Now he seems to be warming up to me. We still only talk out of necessity, but now he doesn't have the clipped tone he used to have when we needed to talk. We'll both be leaving for different colleges...
Anonymous asked: My situation is that a guy friend has had a crush on me for years, we used to hook up at parties years ago, never dated. I was having a hard time last year and drove out to see him for a weekend. I met his good friend, and instantly fell for him. I kept my mouth shut for several months, then he revealed he felt the same. For 2 months we've been inseparable and it's getting serious. Never...
Anonymous asked: What do you do when your ex-fwb that you've always in love with (who has a girlfriend now) tells you that he loves you? I have a hard time believing it was a sincere statement because we have a physical background, but then again I can't think of a reason why he would use those particular words to describe how he feels, if there wasn't at least some truth to it. help? :/
Anonymous asked: okay, so this boy Ive been friends with for a long time told me he likes me and he asked me out and i don't know what to to i know if i say yes I'm going to get teased because he isn't the cutest guy. hes really sweet and i kinda like him but its very little its like .2% out of 100% what should i do? i neeeed answers please!
Anonymous asked: How to get over a guy that I broke it off with because he wasn't helping it go anywhere?
Anonymous asked: 1. How do you lead into a conversation to tell a friend you like them? What would you say? 2. When is a good time to have a conversation like this?
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Dating Tips #254: Don't think a relationship will...
If you think that all your problems will be solved by getting a boyfriend or girlfriend, you’re wrong. This won’t fix anything. In fact, it could make it worse by adding more pressure or stress to your life. When you’re in a relationship, you’ll still have rocky times in your life. The only difference is that when you have these rough times, you have someone to lean on for...
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HowAboutWe: Don't be this guy →
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Dating Tips #253: Learn the difference between the...
Although dating a bad boy can be fun, it’s only fun for a short time. Once these people get what they want, they’re on to the next one. The good guys, however, will take their time getting to know you. They won’t pressure or rush the physical aspect of the relationships. They will get to know your family. They’ll stick around even if you’re not wanting to sleep with...
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He avoids making plans
Sometimes it can take a while to pinpoint specific relationship tips. For instance, if your guy is busy and can’t spend a lot of time with you for a week or something, that doesn’t necessarily mean he’s lost interest. However, if he consistently tries to avoid making any plans with you, then he might not be as interested now. Betty Confidential also says to keep an eye...
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Dating Tips #252: Be Supportive
Be the person who pushes your significant other towards their dreams, not the one who holds them back. Be there to give them encouragement when they’re discouraged. Motivate them when they’re unmotivated and just be there for them when they need you.
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1. You’re Both Respectful
One of the easiest ways to tell what is a good relationship from what is not is respect. If you respect him, and he respects you, feel free to move forward. But if he’s disrespectful, or if you often feel less-than-respectful of him, it’s not a good, healthy relationship, and it won’t be later, either.
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HowAboutWe: 6 Reasons NOT to Give Up On Dating →
Kissing is fun. Really fun. Sure you can have a full-fledged smooching session with any ‘ol body, but it’s not the same as a makeout session at the end of a great date. You’ll get a high from it, and if it’s good enough, it’ll last several days. Say it with me: ooh-la-la!
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HowAboutWe: The Top 10 Lies Men Tell Women →
“I’m not interested in you just for the sex.” Gotcha. We should probably do stuff other than, you know, have sex. If that’s the case.
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Dating Tips #251: Don't have back-ups or fillers
If you’re the kind of person that keeps people on a string for when you’re bored or lonely, stop it. That’s tacky and it’s extremely unfair to the person you’re playing. Also, if you’re stringing someone along just to have them there, don’t get mad when they find someone who actually wants to date them.
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Dating Tips #250: Don't hold someone's past...
We’re human. We make mistakes. We do things we’re not proud of. Don’t hold your partner’s past against them. They can’t change it and neither can you. Accept it and move on. Don’t bring it up in arguments because it’s over. Don’t let it change your relationship. Unless they murdered someone, then you need to get out of that asap.
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HowAboutWe: The Top 10 Lies Women Tell Men →
“I’m fine.” We’re going to go out on a limb here and suggest this is the single most common lie told by women to men.
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Dating Tips #249: Don't hide your emotions
When you’re involved with someone, be honest about how you feel. If they do something that really pisses you off, tell them (nicely) so they know. If you appreciate something they did, tell them. Open and honest communication makes for a healthy relationship.
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HowAboutWe: Dating Tips We Can Learn from '16 &... →
If every person in your life hates your boyfriend, they’re probably right.
Not every person in your life will love your significant other as much as you do, and that’s okay. But when it’s not just one or two people in your life who think your boyfriend sucks, it might be a pattern. If all your friends and family (plus your soccer coach, next door neighbor, and random strangers) hate your partner...
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Dating Tips #248: The more you search for it, the...
Are you looking for love in all the wrong places? Or are you just looking for love anywhere you can? Either way, stop looking. Just live your life and you’ll find who you’re supposed to be with. It’s not going to be romantic or like the movies because life isn’t scripted. Don’t worry about being single so much.
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HowAboutWe: The Ultimate First Date Guide →
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The Big News!
I created a magazine!
Maiden Magazine is now available for purchase! I’ve been working on this magazine since January, and I’m so excited to finally be able to unveil it outside of my school. I had a few different writers, including Nick Notas (The Dating Specialist) and Christina Vuleta (40:20 Vision). If you enjoy it, let your friends know!
Here’s a little bit more about...
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Tune in tonight at 9 for some big news from...
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HowAboutWe: 9 Signs It's Time to Admit That You're... →
You’ve accompanied each other to numerous family functions.
April 2012
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Dating Tips #247: When you become repetitive with...
There’s a difference between saying something thoughtful because you mean it and saying it because you’ve gotten used to saying it. When you say something, i.e. “I love you” “You’re beautiful/handsome”, say it because you mean it, not because you’re used to saying it.
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HowAboutWe: How Tell If He Likes You →
He shows up to whatever you invite him to – party, event, casual hangout
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HowAboutWe: 25 First Date Ideas That Aren't Simply... →
Visit the Planetarium or Natural History Museum.
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HowAboutWe: 9 Things Guys Find Sexy About You That... →
Your Voice
Whether it’s smokey/scratchy, airy or, I’ll say it, slightly lisp-y, the way you talk can be a major turn-on.
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Dating Tips #246: Find someone who complements you
I don’t mean compliment as in “Hey, you’re cute” and that kind of stuff, but I mean someone who helps you be yourself. It’s important to feel comfortable with someone when you’re in a relationship. The best relationships are where people don’t judge each other, but accept the other person for who they are as a whole.
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HowAboutWe: 10 Signs It's the Real Thing →
5. Watching American Idol together feels like a dream date. So does cooking a frozen pizza, cleaning your apartment together, or staring silently at each other.
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Big news coming soon!
Hey guys, I have big news coming soon! It also explains why I haven’t been posting on here a lot the past few months. Stay tuned…
Also, I lost all the messages I had, so if you submitted something and it wasn’t answered, that’s why and feel free to resubmit your questions :)
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Dating Tips #245: Put the past behind you
It’s easy to let our past relationships haunt us. Letting this happen prevents us from moving on. Yes, we might have had rough times with relationships before, but we need to have hope that the next one will be different. Don’t treat everyone differently as the result of one person’s actions because you’ll miss out on so much in life.
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Dating Tips #244: It's okay to take it slow
In our society we like to live life in the fast lane. While fast internet and fast lanes are great for the way we live, it’s not the best way to date. Take time getting to know others, don’t rush in to anything and enjoy it. Anything worth having is worth waiting for. Take it slow with someone and just go on dates before jumping into a relationship.
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“People will say, ‘Oh but the love dies, the romance dies.’ Well to me that’s not...”
– Unknown, this is a great example of how marriage is abused in our society. It’s something to fix, not throw away. It’s time to stop treating marriage as just another relationship. When it’s not going well, work on it, don’t just give up. Don’t walk away, don’t sleep with other people. Talk with your...
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You’re showing off a bit more skin.
And let’s face it, men are simple creatures, easily swayed by the power of suggestion. (Men: You know it’s true. Xoxo.) Remember that study last year that showed that men are turned on by shoulders because they equate shoulders with breasts? Well, then you can imagine their reactions to the tank tops and strapless dresses you’ll be parading around in all...
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Dating Tips #243: If you have nothing to talk...
I understand when people like each other, they text all the time. But you will run out of things to talk about. That’s okay. Don’t force the conversation, otherwise you might end up like this.
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Dating Tips #242: A few things to do as soon as...
Tell them every single thing about yourself. They’ll thank you for not wasting their time in getting to know you.
Talk about your ex. A lot. This lets them know how they shouldn’t act and it shows them you’re clearly over your ex.
Text them even when they haven’t responded to your last 4 texts. They’ll dig the enthusiasm
Call them every hour. They’ll...
March 2012
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Dating Tips #241: Take initiative when planning a...
Any date can be ruined with a “What do you want to do?” “I don’t know, what do you want to do?” Don’t be afraid to take charge and plan the date. It’s better to have a plan then end up doing nothing.
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Dating Tips #240: Sometimes, it's okay to be...
When you’re just meeting someone and unsure if you’re attracted them or not, you can be vague. It’s okay to not say anything about whether or not you have feelings for them because you don’t want to give him/her false hope. Vagueness is only okay on issues that aren’t majorly important.
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Dating Tips #239: Talking doesn't mean you're...
I’ll talk to everyone and I’ll talk to them a lot. Sometimes, guys will think I’m into them without me really ever saying. Realize that just because someone talks to you, it doesn’t mean they want to be more than friends. You’re not automatically dating someone that you talk to and you’re not exclusive until you both agree to not see other people.
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Dating Tips #238: Cheating is NEVER acceptable
Unless you’re officially single, cheating is still cheating. It doesn’t matter if you tell the other person that you’re going to act like you’re single when you’re not, it’s still wrong. There is never an excuse for cheating and I lose all respect for people who don’t have the decency to either be faithful or balls up and break it off. When you cheat,...
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Dating Tips #237: Some people just want sex
These are the people that will ditch you the moment you leave for someone who’s gotten caught having sex in the school bathroom. Don’t fret, just know that you have morals and you deserve someone who wants more than your baby makin’ parts.
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Dating Tips #236: The truth might hurt, but it...
You shouldn’t ever lie to someone in general, but if it’s someone you’re involved with, that hurts. If you think telling someone a small lie will protect them, think again. This is crucial during a break-up, because most people catch on and won’t call you out on it. Just use your brain because the truth is better for everyone involved.
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